Minggu, 17 Mei 2015

How To be A Confident Person

Sometimes, we are being shy to do something because sometimes we feel so doubt about what we are doing. It is so wrong, absolutely. The more we are confident, the more we will believe in ourselves and we will know how much our ability we have. When we are doubt in somewhat we are doing, it is only means that we waste our time. The question is “How to be a confident person?” I have 8 ways to raise your confident up. 
1. Tap into the confidence you were born with (  When you start feeling unsure of yourself remember:  we were all born with confidence, and we can all get it back if we learn to silence the thoughts that threaten it )  
2. Know your strengths and weaknesses ( Learning who you are doesn’t happen overnight. For one thing, it can be hard to know which parts of you are you, and which parts are who you think you should be. And then learning about what you can to do and what you can't to do) 
3. Expect Success ( Conventional wisdom suggests it’s smart to expect the worst because you won’t be disappointed if you fail and you’ll be pleasantly surprised if you succeed. But research suggests this isn’t universally true. Pessimism can undermine your performance creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. However, you have to expect success in your daydream or something else for your future ) 
4. Trust Your Capabilities ( If someone criticizes you, take it is an opportunity to improve. If someone does better than you, see it as an opportunity to learn from them. If you fall short at something, realize you can get closer next time. Don’t worry if you’re not confident in what you can do now—be confident in your potential. )  
5. Embrace The Unknown ( Confidence comes from a space of humility. The more you can be sosial humanity, the more you will be famous and then you will be confident, however )  
6. Take Risks ( If you always do things as you’ve always done them of course you won’t feel confident. You have to do something new for you and then you will know your capabilities. Don't be afraid to take risks. Sometimes the risks will make us being brave to do something more )  
7. Learn to Receive Praise (  Confidence is earned through positive recognition and reinforcement, like Don La Franchi's says. Start from now, you should learn to receive praise to raising your confident up )  
8. Practice Confidence ( Like anything else in life, your confidence will improve with practice. A great opportunity to do this is when you meet new people. Just like if you were the new kid in school, they have no idea who you are—meaning you have an opportunity to show them. Above all, remember you are capable and worthy—just as much as anyone else, regardless of what you’ve achieved, regardless of what mistakes you’ve made. )  
I think that's all the ways to be confident person. There is no wrong to try those things to raising your confident up.

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